hey mitch,
i know nowadays we hardly meet up to gossip or have a decent meal together just me and you but you should know i'm always just a phone away from you. i dun like to see you having problems with your relationship. i know its not easy. but all relationships will reach a stage where all your or your partner's flaws will appear. we can never stay loving forever. relationships will definitely have arguements, qaurrels, tears, happiness and lots of others stuff which we can think of. i know u are trying hard to get his attention but do remember that, guys cant always give their best to us and yet receive nothing from us they do need lots of care and concern from us too. they too wanna be doted on too. i can see you are being really pampered by him, but bear in mind, he wanna be pampered too. by getting to know his problems doesnt mean u will help him lessen his burden or what, sometimes guys just dun wanna share with us their problems not because they think we can do nothing to help them, just that they dun wan us to worry together with him. and dun ever think that you are burden to him. you are his girlfriend, and of cos you will be worried for him. but seeing him stressful, you should be more understanding. treats him better, bring him out for a good meal, catch a nice movie or maybe stroll along the beach and have a nice chat to get to know each other even better. its something a normal couple should be doing. i'm sure you are smart enough to know what i am saying. i wish you all the best in handling this relationship. and i hope i do give u some advice which are helpful in a way. LOL i'm not expert but i think i been thru slightly more than most of my peers thats all. i'm not that mature, and there are times i got my own problems too as well. i dun sort my thinking out at once, i will put on a black face and making a scene for myself, worrying this and that and causing everyone to worry for me, and then i will slowly talk to my friends about it and often, their advice for me works! maybe i too need attention from everyone. haha! oh well, anyway, i think now u should roughly know what to do le ba. i wish you good luck ya? and always remember hor, i got a phone with me! not pager, (not like you.) haha!
cheers,
Fenz