why do us gers likes to get hurt in a relationship?

purely because we all tend to love the guy too much.

but why do guys often choose to take our love for granted?

purely because they know we never have the guts to let them go.

Love? Relationship? BGR? Unhappiness? Tears? What for?

why do we like to get ourselves in all these shit when we joyly well know what kind of person they are after being together for sometime?

do we really need to survive thru love?

i'm not saying i wont fall in love for the rest of my life or whatsoever shit. i know falling in love have its good points too. but recently what my friend had been thru had let me know how guy behave before wooing the ger and after getting the ger by his side.

gers often are the ones who lose out at the end of relationship but do we all want it like that? No!
we love them too much that we wanna let them go. we would rather ourselves get hurt than to see the guy unhappy.

it sucks to see my friend getting very upset over this and wasting her tears for someone not even worht a single drop of it!
i dun understand why.

it makes me wonder does true love really exists? purely just true love?

its hard for me to fall in love again.